年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨著年齡的增長，終于領悟到愛一個人，就算用一輩子的時間，還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人，體諒這個人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as timegoes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the wholelife will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love.All this needs a very big mind.

有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦？我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發現，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來日歲月，會讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時日一起成長。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We alwaysthink that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing inthe world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize thatit's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but infact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time. 　　


在自己面前，應該一直留有一個地方，獨自留在那里。然后去愛。不知道是什么，不知道是誰，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. Andthen begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to loveor how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will comeout, but this kind of waiting is the love itself

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我不覺得人的心智成熟是越來越寬容涵蓋，什么都可以接受。相反，我覺得那應該是一個逐漸剔除的過程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的東西是什么。而后，做一個純簡的人。
Idon't think that when people grow up, they will become morebroad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's aselecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's theleast. And then be a simple man.　　

我知道這世上有人在等我，盡管我不知道我在等誰。但是因為這樣，我每天都非常快樂。
I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this. 　

在這個世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個人舍棄世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.　

我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

幸福，不是長生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活愿望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃，想被愛的時候有人來愛你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights inone's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or havingsomething to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when youneed love.

一個人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后，你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富，它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When youfinally get your own happiness, you will understand the previoussadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherishthe people you love

陳錦華老師

知名華人演講家、暢銷書《心靈動力》作者

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